He dumped me after 2 weeks when his paranoid thoughts came back.He told me hes not good enough for me because of his mental issues but i reassured him that im ready for whatever comes our way. What are the odds of him having a real relationship with his issues?
But that is a movie and life is rarely that neatly packaged.
Right now especially, my boyfriend has made a friend at work who is female (same age as myself). Why don't people listen to their intuition any longer?
Aside from my suspicions its clear that she's romantically interested in him... It is a distorted way of thinking; however with right therapist you can make incredible progress.
It doesn't help that I'm already so paranoid but now I feel too bitter to react normally to his friendship with her. Overall I don't express my paranoia but I feel it.. I wish I could heal but despite therapy I feel like a part of me will always lack trust. Don't settle for just anyone, go to a specialist, make them work!
Tell them all your embarrassing thoughts..can actually begin to find triggers, patterns, strategies.