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It’s her fault because she’s been mistrustful and dishonest, but it’s also your fault because you’ve allowed her attraction for you to fall.
Had you not allowed that, she wouldn’t have cheated. Well of course, if you’ve already decided you’d rather move on from her than try to repair the relationship, then breaking up with her is the only way to proceed.
And if those 2 things can’t come back (a sound relationship is based on them) then you’ve got no hope.
So it’s been determined, there’s no way forward without breaking up with her.
Without that respect there was a 0% chance of you being able to get the cheating stopped and the relationship back to the good times of the past. You had to break up with her to salvage some respect so that it can remain possible for her to feel an attraction for you again.
The next part after breaking up with her, is obviously getting her back.“But Sam, even though she cheated on me, if I just don’t break up with her to begin with, then I won’t need to get her back! Yes, that leaves you needing to get her back afterwards, but If you didn’t break up with her for cheating she’d have lost ALL respect for you, and you’d then have had NO chance of ever working things out with her.
Much more likely, you’re thinking, “so my girlfriend cheated on me but I still love her, and if there’s a way I can get the cheating stopped and make things work out with her, then I’m going to go ahead and do it.”Am I right? That’s because by cheating on you, she’s disrespected you in the ultimate way, and if you allow that to pass without much of a fuss, then she’ll lose EVEN MORE respect for you.
A woman cannot feel attraction for a man who allows her to disrespect him.
Then, here’s what to say to a cheating girlfriend: just tell her straight that you have standards and she has monumentally failed them. Then nod your head and walk out with not another word.
Helping a guy to re-attract his ex is my area of expertise.
Not only have I gotten my own ex back and gone on to have a very successful relationship with her, I’ve also helped thousands of other guys recover their relationships over the past few years.
Next, you need to work up the courage to actually go ahead and break up with her.
I would encourage you to just sit for a while and let what you’ve got to do, sink in.