Dating doesnt want gf
Can you please shed some light on what’s going on here?”If a guy won’t call you his girlfriend after a month (two months tops), then I would say it means that he’s enjoying the relationship exactly where it is and at this moment will not take it any further unless he is inspired to.
One is staying in a relationship you are not happy in and haven’t been happy in for a while, but you’re staying in it because of the “potential of what it could be.” Frankly, if you don’t like it the way it is, it probably will not change unless he is motivated to change it.
I met this guy online and we've been talking for almost a year now. When we started talking, he was in a relationship that ended 3 months after we started talking (he didn't tell me that until later on and he claimed it was pretty much over by the time we started talking).
He said he didn't want to date anytime soon because he wasn't ready for it emotionally and tbh I'm okay with that.
I’ve tried bringing it up and when I do he almost makes me feel guilty about it and says things like ‘what we have is so special, why do we have to label it?
’ I know he had a painful breakup with his girlfriend before me which I think might be a part of this, so I’m trying to be understanding but I don’t think one thing should have anything to do with the other.