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With so many countervailing messages, even Christians may be sceptical about the relevance and goodness of the biblical vision for marriage.This paper affirms the biblical teaching on marriage and considers how these foundational principles can be applied in our everyday experience.These have included the ‘marriage allowance’ (a transferable tax allowance for low-income couples) and the redefinition of marriage[9] which, amongst other things, was promoted on the grounds that commitment (regardless of the couple’s genders) should be incentivised.[10] Speaking in the same-sex marriage debate in 2012, the then Culture Secretary said, ‘Most people would agree that marriage is a good thing; choosing to spend the rest of your life with someone you love brings commitment and stability.What’s more it helps bind society together and strengthens our communities.’[11] However, the government has to tread a cautious line between affirming marriage for reasons of social cohesion and the politically damaging risk of appearing to criticise single parents and alternative lifestyles.The grand chronological creation overture in the first chapter is re-viewed, but now with man at the centre of the created order. But whereas all of creation is described as ‘good’ or ‘very good’, chapter 2 introduces something that is ‘not good’. I will make a helper suitable for him.’[17] Human beings are made for relationships, and the foundational human relationship is between a man and a woman in marriage.Adam declares that the woman whom God brings to him is ‘bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh’.

Already, in the creation story itself, humankind is marked out as distinctively different from all that God has already created.

Already the double agenda of fruitfulness and stewardship is being fulfilled, by both male and female.

The second chapter of Genesis, far from being an alternative account of creation is in many ways a commentary on Genesis –29.

Summary The broad and pervasive ‘trend away from marriage’ has far-reaching implications for society as a whole, as well as for Christians who come under pressure to conform to cultural standards.

In contrast to the short-term and low-commitment relationships that have fast become the norm, the Bible holds out a positive vision for marriage, based on God’s covenant relationship with his people, and offers us the hope of communicating an attractive model of marriage to those who adhere to very different values. It is not simply that many marriages end in divorce, although many do (some 42 per cent of marriages in the UK with almost half affecting children under 16).[1] Increasingly, people are opting out of marriage altogether (cohabitation in the UK doubled over the period 1996 to 2012, to reach a total of 5.9 million people).[2] The emergence of a kind of ‘bonded independence’ in relationships, particularly among the under-25s, where the quality of the relationship trumps any obligation to longer-term commitment (‘Is it working for me?

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