Am still single dating advice
Perhaps the real reason you are alone on a Saturday night is because you are in denial.We often think of denial as it pertains to larger issues such as alcohol abuse or mental illness.As a Christian, how do I know if it’s “my fault” or if I’m just waiting on the Lord?
We need to get up to bat and we need to take some swings.
These insecurities may spill over into your larger worry of why you are still single.
However, whether or not your eyes are blue is not a reason for your singlehood-such things are beyond our control.
If you’ve been asked out and turned everyone down, never left your house except to go to work, rarely tried to appear appealing and approachable, never looked anyone in the eyes and smiled, not given the time of day or initiated a conversation with anyone, then sure…you may indeed be responsible. However, being single for more than two or three years, like I have, doesn’t necessarily mean it’s your “fault.” There are probably a number of contributing factors which has led to your singleness, but there is no need wasting time figuring who’s to blame.
Some things are uncontrollable, especially in regards to dating, the actions of others, and God’s will. When it comes to relationships (or non-relationships), we need to take some action as we are “waiting on the Lord.” What I mean is if you truly want to be in a relationship, you need to do something about it….discover what God blesses.